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Belief system

I want to play a little bit with our belief system and how we may believe that we are a victim to it. What we think we are, what we think the world is, was created. by us, before we were 7 years old. From conception to about 7, we are functioning with instinctive survival, we can’t reason until 7, our brain hasn’t developed the ability to reason, which is why the Waldorf schools don’t introduce books to their students until they are 7. So what we feel we need to do to survive, our methods of self protection, what we feel we have to do to deal with pain, fear and fear of more pain to come, how lovable or unworthy we may feel we are or aren’t, doubts, fears, feelings of limitations, our ability to cope with the emotions we may feel, like the heavy emotions in our environment, all become the basis of our belief system. We become what we have decided we are or aren’t. From then on, under stress, we live according to what we believe we can or can’t do. When we are feeling stress we automatically go into survival mode and do what our programmed belief system dictates as the thing to do, we become victims to what we believe we have to do to survive. We have the ability to cope with and transform any and all experiences in our life when we believe that we can, so the spiritual challenge for all of us is to choose to trust in ourselves and believe that where there is a will, there is a way. Change the way you believe and you will change your life. I AM, I Can and I Will.

Here is some direction from Kryon

Claim It
From Kryon Live Channel, “The Power of Compassion”
August 2000 in Seattle, WA

Create and visualize right now that your lives are clear, free, and peaceful, and that there are no worries and no problems. For those who have come here with a cellular disease in your bodies, visualize right now a time before it was present. Feel the peacefulness of that sensation as you sit before Spirit. We are telling you that as you visualize this and claim it as your own, you bring yourself closer to the very reality that you’re creating in your mind—such is the power of your interdimensional gifts.

~ KRYON, through Lee Carroll

We are playing an energy game

What are we stupid or what? We are playing an energy game and instead of taking advantage of the keys we are given to make the changes we are going through easier, we keep playing with judgments and comparisons. We should do, they shouldn’t do and they should do, questioning and judging, why? The only sensible answer is, that we are lazy and uncaring. We don’t get it, that we are being silly when ever we aren’t being more consciously aware of what we are doing to our self, when we are lazy and unaware of what we do and what we don’t do. What we don’t do, is love and honor our self, we don’t take care of our self, we rain on our own parade, we ignore the opportunity that arises constantly in our daily lives to transform our belief system by choosing to feel good consciously, how? “I don’t do that any more, I AM feeling good.” and repeating it over and over until the old thought is no longer tempting us to think it, what ever it was. Come on, honor yourself, be nice to your self. choose to feel good instead of wallowing in poor me shit. Be caring and loving to your self, it’s so easy, just do it.

Here is some inspiration.
A Message from Archangel Gabriel

by Marlene Swetlishoff

April 9, 2015
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Beloved Ones,

Let us have discourse on the quality of love known as receptivity. There is always much activity that is occurring within one’s self. There are feelings, desires, one’s intuitive senses and a desire for inner peace. It is important for each individual to make the commitment to take some time every day to pray, daydream, meditate, contemplate, experience and get to know what they are feeling. Listening daily to self is how one develops a receptive state of mind. This receptive and open state of mind allows one to enjoy hearing the birds chirping, to taste delicious food, to smell the flowers, and to feel the gentle wind across one’s face. Through this receptivity, one enjoys many other important and meaningful details of life and living that they could miss otherwise. Tuning into one’s senses reanimates the world around them. The open and receptive heart supports the ability to be in the world from a place of one’s largeness as a soul in every day life. An open and receptive heart is necessary to raise the spiritual vibration for evolution. When one’s heart is open, there is a deeper capacity to manifest greater good in the world around them. An open and receptive heart is one that is without limitation, it is the doorway to deeper spiritual connection and loving service.

To be open hearted and receptive is to allow the world to move freely, without the need to control circumstances and individuals in that world. Having an open and receptive heart takes practice and discipline to achieve and begins with clarity of mind. When clarity is present, the mind does not react from past history and distortions overlaying this history onto current events, rather it sees the situation as it truly exists in the moment. The presence of clarity is a simple statement of what is currently unfolding and is devoid of drama or excitement. Opening one’s heart and soul is the first step to unleashing the unlimited power within. Trusting one’s self and remembering that they are a divine being brings reason and meaning, not only for the different experiences in one’s life, but for their life as a whole. By trusting in every experience and being receptive to the idea that every single one of them brings one closer to their life’s destiny, one recognizes in each positive or negative experience the lesson and tries to find the meaning of each one.

As a conduit to higher consciousness, the heart plays a pivotal role in spiritual development, as well as the experiencing of joy in everyday life. The receptive state of the heart promotes receptivity in the mind, as higher understanding and awareness prevail. In this way, the mind begins to connect with knowingness, an awareness that exists beyond words and which brings deeper understanding to each situation in one’s life. As the mind develops comfort in its quietness, it will become more receptive. No longer feeling the need to have an answer or to know what is next, one’s mind then opens to the receptive state. Receptivity invites what is next to come forward. It includes all aspects of consciousness as a contributor of value even if it does not understand the role or significance. As the mind is nourished, its world view begins to change. Events previously seen as stagnant become easily transformed. Often one small change from this place of awareness and receptivity provides a great transformation. The open hearted and open minded state continues to grow allowing for more useable energy for the creation of a life of joy and love.

Taking several periodic moments to slow down and listen to one’s self makes one more effective in their daily activities and enables one to get more done and accomplished. As they slow down for periods of the day so that they can experience their own bodily emotions, sensations and feelings, they can utilize this same receptive state of mind to become a good listener to others. Most people spend very little time truly listening when their full attention is on the other person and truly taking in what they are saying, meaning and feeling. When one puts effort into slowing down long enough to become willing to be receptive and understanding to another’s point of view, they will find that their relationships are greatly improved. By staying open and alert within unfolding events, one brings clarity and compassion to one’s life and to those around them. An open heart freely invites the world around it to enter and engage. It acknowledges the wisdom within and creates opportunity for the expression of this expansiveness out into the world. As the heart opens, access to higher wisdom, soul presence and divine energy are all possible. From this place, the human personality and mind are supported to relax and open to these higher possibilities.

Transformation of old held consciousness opens the doorway for ongoing evolution and heart opening. Each time one is receptive with what is in the moment, they learn to open to the depth of whom they are right at that moment, rather than who they once perceived they were. By making this choice they open to the divine within them, they choose their path and invite their spiritual dimension into their daily lives as a willing partner along this path of evolution. The spiritually receptive mind exists in a place of knowing; it is quiet, devoid of thought but extends its wisdom through presence. Life is all about learning and growing. When one sets an intention of being willing to see things in a new light, the most amazing ways to live life open as one becomes receptive to all ideas, people, places, and opportunities. The universe is always sending every individual new ways to live magnificent lives filled with love, one just has to be conscious and present to it.

May you be at peace and in a receptive frame of heart and mind so that you are open to whatever the world wants to bring your way in unexpected and delightful ways.

I AM Archangel Gabriel

©2009-2015 Marlene Swetlishoff/Tsu-tana (Soo-tam-ah) Keeper of the Symphonies of Grace

Develop Self Love

Develop Self Love

Acceptance with out judgment creates inner peace, when we are in a state of peace, we have peace of body, mind and spirit. When we have peace of mind we have clear vision, when we have clear vision we can see the value of anything we may be focused on. When we choose to accept that Existence doesn’t create anything that doesn’t have a positive value and Existence doesn’t make mistakes, then what we see in the mirror will be a self imposed blessing. The only judgment that makes any sense is to figure out how we can take better care of ourselves, how we can learn from experience how to do better next time, how to make better choices next time,how we can love ourselves more and more, take better care of our self and our life. As we develop self love and self appreciation for ourselves, we develop the same feelings for everyone else. When I’m O.K., so is everyone else. We are all doing the best we can at all times. We all want to do better, we just haven’t believed in our own ability, our own inner power, the self trust, the belief in ourselves, that would enable us to create the abundance we all desire. Change your focus to being a positive, powerful, capable, love-able person with unlimited potential. Doubt your doubts and create the life you came here to live and enjoy. It’s your movie, the choice is yours. Just do it.

Love is the cohesive force of all creation

Love is the cohesive force of all creation

We are constantly being reminded to love our self and then share our self love with as many others as we can. What we are doing by focusing on love, is becoming more and more consciously aware of the stuff that we are created from, love. The Divine Matrix, the energy that everything in existence is created from is love, love is the cohesive force of all creation, which of course means we are all a product and particle of love, we just don’t think we are. We are really an unconscious victim to our way of thinking, which for most of us is full of doubts, fears, negative feelings of judgment, ya buts, perceived limitations, doom and destruction, sickness and disease, shoulds and should nots, we have a win and lose mentality.Our use of Free Will is far too often a programmed reaction instead of a conscious response and most of us aren’t aware of the fact that we are doing it to our selves. We are pretending that we are  a victim to our own stupidity, which is silly. When we wake up and begin to love our selves, we are being true to what we truly are, love in a human form. By being true to what we can now understand and accept what we truly  really are, a conscious expression of Divinity, our lives will become the  loving expression we came here to be, can you dig it.

Here is a loving message from Jesus

All are now enveloped and overlighted in every moment by the Tsunami of Love.
Smile God Loves You

Love is the cohesive force of all creation

No one is unworthy of God’s Love, and therefore no one is unworthy of yours! The only reason that you would withhold love from anyone is because you believe yourself to be unlovable, and to withhold love from someone is to withhold it from yourself. However, to acknowledge and be aware of that extremely painful belief about yourself is often too horrific to countenance, and so you project it outwards on to someone you can judge as unworthy of being loved.

Judgment is an aspect of the illusion to which many are enthusiastically attached. Because of the underlying sense of unworthiness that so many feel and deny, it can be very satisfying to see another’s behavior as wrong, sinful, criminal, deceitful, untrustworthy – in fact being in any way different in their behavior from your personally perceived and accepted sense of what is “normal” – judging them according to some arbitrary rules of your own making, and then righteously condemning them and enthusiastically sentencing them to what you have convinced yourselves is their well deserved punishment.

It is all too easy to find a target on to whom you can project this unbearable self-hatred – and it surely is self-hatred – because so many of you feel this way about yourselves and are constantly looking for some unworthy one doing wrong on whom you can impose a self-righteous and, of course, utterly justifiable negative judgment. Doing this helps you to feel better about yourselves because as you compare yourselves to these unacceptable others you can tell yourselves: “I am not nearly as bad as that,” or even “I am really very good.”

And in your collective fear there are very few among you who have not committed some actions that are generally perceived as crimes instead of being recognized as the desperate calls for love that thy really are. The way out of this bind or seemingly infinite playback loop is to acknowledge, look at, and release all self-judgment of yourselves as unworthy. In God’s sight no one is ever unworthy!
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Love is the cohesive force of all creation

If you find yourselves judging others or yourselves, even if only privately, secretly in your minds, it indicates that you are in denial of your own sense of unworthiness, of unlovableness. However, once you have looked within and fully acknowledged that extremely painful state, that fearful belief and feeling that you are not good enough, you can release it and see the insanity of it, the utter invalidity of it. In that moment of awareness as you gently release it, thank it for the protection it thought it was offering you, and then intend and allow yourselves to feel the Love in which the Tsunami of Love has enveloped you.

The human condition, in which each of you sees yourself as separate from one another and from God, causes you enormous stress. Your true nature is Love, but as humans it seems that you are separated from that state and so you spend your lives seeking it, mostly in the wrong places – from your parents initially, from authority figures, from your peer group, and then very likely from another individual whom you admire and covet and whom you desperately hope will return your admiration.

To believe yourself to be separate is a most painful experience that starts at birth as you are forcefully expelled from the womb. As you grow and develop, the parental, tribal, cultural, racial, and religious rules that are imposed upon you further confirm that sense of separation because each time you break one of them and are judged wrong, and maybe shamed for doing so, it builds within you an intense sense of unworthiness thus separating you emotionally from the “good people,” those who have judged you and found you wanting. And that pain has to be buried, hidden deep in your unconscious, because it cannot be born.

When you see it spelled out like that it is quite clear that the only way out of this unhappy state is by embracing love. You all, every single human being, wants only to be loved. And there is never even a moment when you are not infinitely loved. As a human you need to feel loved because Love is your nature, and to feel unloved is effectively to die. So you keep seeking outside what you can only find within you. Love is the life force, without it you would cease to exist and that is impossible because you are eternal beings at One with Source.
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Nevertheless, it seems to many of you that you do die because you have learned over the eons to identify solely with your human bodies which have, as you might express it “a rather severely limited shelf-life.” Medical science has recently succeeded in extending that bodily life expectancy, but it has also encouraged a belief that it is the only life available to you.

Over the eons unconditional love and acceptance has been a state of being that very few have experienced. However, over the last one hundred years or so, mainly as a result of the development of psychology as an approved ameliorative healing practice, the need that humans have for love has been increasingly recognized and applied, so that many young people today take it as normal – as indeed it is! – that people should behave kindly and lovingly to one another.

It is this enormous change in perception that led to the arrival of the Tsunami of Love. Previously, in earlier times, it would not have been welcomed because the general human attitude encouraged judgment and harsh punishment for wrongdoers, even for the smallest offenses. Love was talked about as being desirable but unobtainable, and therefore it was considered insane to even dream of experiencing it. You have some “leftover” expressions from those times: “You have to be cruel to be kind,” and “Tough love.” Many still believe in them! However, humanity as a whole is moving very rapidly away from that insane and truly unconscionable belief system.
Release Fear Reawaken Love

Love does not condemn or punish, It offers Itself freely and constantly to all. But over the eons you have spent in the illusion, playing games of separation and experiencing the concomitant fear, judgment, and shame that it offers, you have “learned” to see yourselves as unworthy of Love and therefore find it very difficult to accept It. Feeling unloved, because you have closed yourselves off to It so that the pain of not feeling It will not be experienced, you are amazed when someone unexpectedly treats you kindly and lovingly.

This is happening more and more frequently as all are now enveloped and overlighted in every moment by the Tsunami of Love. All you need do to experience It is to open your hearts and allow It in. Intellectually most of you know that God loves you all, but deep within you lies your true knowing, the place where you can feel that Love enveloping and embracing you. By opening your hearts you learn to access that deep inner knowing and can then relish the experience of it whenever you choose. It is your God-given right, your heritage, so claim it, daily, and release all doubts about your worthiness to enjoy and experience God’s infinite Love for you.

Lets be more aware

Lets be more aware

There are no Victims and no Villains, only unaware people. Free will and the Law of Attraction are gifts of Life improvement and Enjoyment. We are our own creator. We are in an energy game that is absolute, total and at our mercy. We are stupid, lazy, careless and self punishing. We are given an opportunity to have abundance, joy, love and anything we really want by playing according to the rules and instead we chose to suffer and prove to ourselves that nobody really cares and that nobody is us. We use our energy to Doubt, Fear, live in limitation, struggle and feel that we are victims, which is essentially true. We are victims to our own lack of responsibility. We are the creator all we need to do is change our focus and take conscious charge of how we Think, Speak, Function (do things) and then we have feelings about it. By focusing on and demanding from our selves that we choose to feel good and choose to use our power of expression in a Positive and Productive manner, by looking for solutions in a creative way, then the Power of Cause and Effect will reward us with Positive Results. It’s that simple. It’s infallible. With Trust and Faith and unyielding effort we can manifest anything we are willing to believe that we can create, but we have to do it, that’s the rules of the Game of Life, you get what back what you put out. So what do you really want? and what are you willing to do to get it? Change your use of your Free Will consciously, with trust and faith and you will change your life. It’s up to you. Be intelligent and JUST DO IT ! Aren’t you bored with negativity. It’s your movie.

Feelings are a reality

My computer crashed yesterday but I’m back today. 2015 is a year of amplification, everything will be more of what ever we do to ourselves, with the way we use our energy. So the more consciously we choose to think, speak, feel and act the better our life and what we accomplish will be, especially by the way we choose to evaluate our feelings. Remember this is a feeling world, so we need to evaluate our feelings consciously. When we accept that our purpose is to find the value in ourselves and our world, then it pays to see our feelings as valuable insights. Feelings are a reality, the way we judge them, good, bad or what ever is always a choice, perhaps as an unconscious habit, it’s always our choice. So lets start looking for the value of our feelings, the sensual awareness the our feelings contain. For example if we judge some of our feelings as negative, the negative attraction for more of the same will return stronger. So what is the positive message that we can find that these feelings are trying to make us aware of? If it is true that all is good, then, what is the good in these feelings that I have judged as bad? What’s the value I can find by knowing that it’s there is something of as well, and looking for it?  This approach can be a life changer and when we find the good the inner  light turns on, it’s a light producer, Who knows this might become one of our favorite games, finding the value of. all of our feelings.

Here is Hilarion’s weekly inspiration.

HILARION’s WEEKLY MESSAGE

from Marlene Swetlishoff

January 11-18, 2015
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Beloved Ones,

Upon the world there is a quiet revolution of consciousness occurring. As each heart opens to the greater energy influx, they begin to recall their divine connections to each other. They begin to go within to sit in silence and solitude and ponder the true state of their being. They take the time necessary to understand that the world they are living on is rapidly changing and they are questioning why that should be. They seek to find the answers to their many questions and turn to the internet where they have the opportunity to try many key words that act as portals to volumes of information which instantly unfolds before them in the vast library of collective knowledge. They are seeking answers to what life is really all about, to the existence of spirit and as they do so they are discovering information that opens up an entire new reality for them. They discern that which rings true within their own heart and soul.

It is an uncomfortable discovery in many ways for they now begin to understand that each person upon the planet is responsible for their own choices and actions in each moment, that their soul is held accountable for all their deeds during their entire lifetime and that the world they thought was real was just an illusion projected by forces outside themselves. From this awareness comes awakening and the desire to know where they stand in the eternal scheme of things. This awareness opens exciting new pathways and they discover new possibilities for their lives. As their hearts open to new possibilities, they see that it only requires their attention, intention and diligence. Their horizon is expanded in many ways and they begin to explore new potentials for their lives, in new thoughts, new actions that they can take to make their life better than before.

They look at the people in their lives through a new perception. They see that it is in their relationships with others that they can learn more about their own character, that what they see in the people around them that they like and admire is a quality they themselves embody. And that which they don’t like in someone’s character is also a part of their own character. They begin to have a more compassionate attitude towards themselves and others and see that every encounter with another helps to broaden their understanding of life and love and helps them to see more of who they are as individuals. They choose to be more loving and accepting of themselves and the people in their sphere of influence and accept the world as it is. They now understand that their personal world is a result of their thoughts and that they can change their thoughts to more loving ones and by doing so create a life and a world that is lovely to experience.

They begin to trust in a higher power that has always been at work in their individual lives, the universal power of love which guides them always and stands the test of time and through this, their life takes on greater meaning and purpose. As they allow themselves to feel and experience the love that bathes them and everyone upon their planet, they realize that nothing can ever harm or have a negative effect on them unless they themselves allow fear to enter. By keeping an open heart and mind, and trusting in the healing power of love to transform their lives, they experience more joy and happiness in all facets of it. By trusting in their hearts truth and their own intuitive perceptions, they draw to them all that is necessary to create that which is their hearts desire and a greater peace and clarity will manifest into their everyday lives.
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There is a natural divine order that exists within all creation and everyone’s life is always held in perfect equilibrium. Every experience that a person goes through is a lesson in love and wisdom that serves a deeper purpose than a person can know at the time they experience it. Everyone has the ability to mentally and emotionally rise above all that they encounter in life and transcend it. The present tests in life that each person is experiencing in these times as individuals and as a collective, calls for more and greater compassion, tolerance, patience and gentleness. These qualities are a sign of maturity and strength of character. It is possible to resolve situations in a loving way which creates a positive outcome for all concerned. At the heart of all matter, only love exists.

Until next week…

I AM Hilarion

©2008-2015 Marlene Swetlishoff/Tsu-tana (Soo-tam-ah) Keeper of the Symphonies of Grace

Achieving Self Awareness & manifesting a glorious future.

Actually we only have one problem, one enemy and it’s between our ears, our belief system. Our belief system was created ,by us, from conception to 6 1/2 years of age and we created it in response to the emotional feelings we are receiving from our parents and our environment, to protect us from pain, fear and the fear of more pain to come, we are into survival without reason. To begin with we are reacting instinctively, we aren’t able to reason and consider until we are 6 1/2 years old. We are reacting to the strong emotions we feel from this world that we are now a part of and creating our ideas of this world. The energy of this world is emotional and we are getting a preview of what to expect from the emotional expressions of others. We are totally reactive, first in the womb for nine months and then, as we feel the emotions of our parents way of teaching us what to do and how to act. Their intentions are guide and protects us, our reactions are quite often feeling that we aren’t good enough, that we are being told we are wrong, and should be different. That’s the game of life, creating doubts and fears to over come as our spiritual challenge. Transforming our childhood belief system into conscious awareness by choice, is our essential purpose of self awareness. I’ve added a long article about achieving self awareness and manifesting the abundance that is our birth right for you in case you care to check it out. I’m available to answer questions if you have any,at warrenstagg@hotmail.com
What You Must Know About Negative Beliefs ~ The Laws of Attraction and Polarity
By: By Tania Kotsos
Your negative beliefs are attracting more of the circumstances you do not want in your life, despite your best efforts to focus on what you actually want. By pitting your conscious mind against your deeply ingrained, subconscious negative beliefs, you are inadvertently setting yourself up to attract more of the same unwanted circumstances that you are trying to change. To understand why this happens and how to by-pass such negative beliefs when consciously creating your reality, you must first understand how the subconscious mind runs your life, and how the Laws of Attraction and Polarity work with your beliefs to create your circumstances.
The Role of Your Subconscious Mind:
Your subconscious mind is responsible for executing the incredibly powerful mental programmes that run every aspect of your life. These programmes are automatically carried out by your subconscious, without any need for your conscious input. They are based on your deep seated positive and negative beliefs and are what determine your overall mindset, emotional vibration, habitual actions and ultimately, the circumstances of your life.
What are Negative Beliefs? Simply put, negative beliefs are those limiting beliefs about yourself or any aspect of life, that prevent you from achieving success. When consciously creating your reality, no single factor is more important than your beliefs. This is because thought power underlies the conscious creation process and so, it stands to reason, that the source of your habitual thoughts is the single most important determining factor of your reality. And what is the primary source of your habitual thoughts? It is your set of personal beliefs, with your positive beliefs contributing to your success, and your negative beliefs preventing it.
Is Your Subconscious Mind Serving Your Success? The subjective nature of the subconscious mind means that it does not distinguish between positive or negative beliefs, and hence does not distinguish between which programmes serve your success or not. It dutifully carries out any programme it is given; but it is also loathed to change a programme once it is in place, irrespective of whether or not it is premised on a limiting belief. This does not mean that the subconscious mind cannot be re-programmed through various visualization and meditation techniques, but rather that doing so effectively with long-term results, can be difficult to achieve.
The good news is that you do not have to wait to re-programme your subconscious mind before you can consciously create your reality. Instead, you can learn to by-pass those negative beliefs that hinder your success, by shifting your mental focus (but more on that later). Next, let us look at the relationship between your mental focus, limiting beliefs and the Law of Attraction.
The Law of Attraction in Isolation:
The Law of Attraction states that you attract that which you both focus on and are emotionally in vibrational harmony with. This makes perfect sense when you look at the existing circumstances in your life. For instance, if you are experiencing financial difficulties, the chances are that both your mental focus and emotional vibration, are aligned with financial difficulties; otherwise you would not be experiencing them.
The Problem of Using the Law of Attraction in the Face of Negative Beliefs:
It is important to clarify that while your mental focus can be chosen at will by the conscious mind, your emotional vibration is mostly a function of the subconscious mind and hence is heavily influenced by your beliefs. The problem arises when you try to change your unwanted circumstances by using the Law of Attraction in the face of subconscious limiting beliefs. The problem is that mainstream advice tells you simply to focus on what you want; but, if what you want and hence focus on, is the “opposite” of what you have, then it contradicts what you are subconsciously still in vibrational harmony with.
Playing Mental Catch Up with Your Beliefs: It takes time and repeated effort for your subconscious emotional vibration to catch up to your new mental focus. For instance, just because you are thinking about having a lot of money, does not mean you are emotionally feeling it as well. Remember also, that a person who is already financially wealthy does not think of money all day because his (or her) money-programme is being automatically run by his subconscious mind without any related negative money beliefs. To understand how your negative beliefs affect the Law of Attraction, we must next examine the role of the Law of Polarity in creating your circumstances.
The Importance of the Law of Polarity:
The Law of Polarity is one of the Seven Universal Laws and tells us that everything is dual. This means that two things that appear to be opposites are varying degrees of the same thing and are inseparable. The simplest example is heat and cold. Although common sense tells us that they are opposites, they are in fact varying degrees of the same thing we call temperature and we cannot have the one without the potential of the other.
The same applies to everything you want or intend to manifest in your life. Everything you want is inseparable from its “opposite” which you do not want. In other words, dualities come in a single package that includes all the degrees of the spectrum between the extremes of that duality. For instance, you cannot attract financial abundance without the potential for lack; you cannot attract success without the potential for failure; you cannot attract a healthy body without the potential for an unhealthy one. You always attract the “complete duality package” since the two extremes, and all the degrees in between them, are inseparable.
How the Laws of Polarity and Attraction Work Together:
Let us quickly recap. The Law of Attraction states that you attract to yourself that which you mentally focus on and are in vibrational harmony with. The Law of Polarity states that everything is dual and that the two extremes that appear to be opposites are in inseparable. This means that you attract to yourself the complete package of your mental focus and that which is manifested in your life out of that complete package, is whatever you are in vibrational harmony with.
The problem of mentally focusing on something that is simply the “opposite” of your existing negative beliefs should now be getting obvious. Staying with the example of finances, someone who is experiencing financial lack due to their negative beliefs, who then chooses to consciously focus on financial abundance, will attract to himself the complete package of financial-lack-to-abundance, and since his subconscious emotional vibration is one of lack, he will simply create MORE of the same in his life.
The Net Effect of the Laws of Polarity and Attraction:
The net effect of the Law of Polarity and the Law of Attraction in the face of subconscious negative beliefs, is that at best your circumstances are left unchanged and that at worst you attract more of what you do not want. If you are attracting more of the same circumstances that you do not want, despite your best efforts to focus on what you do want, then the chances are that a negative belief rather than your mental focus is determining your outcome.
It may seem like there is little chance of consciously creating your intended outcome without first changing your negative subconscious beliefs but this is not the case. There is a very simple method of mental focus that can help you by-pass your negative beliefs and free your subconscious mind to attract and create those circumstances you actually want to experience.
“Place your mental focus on what you want at the exclusion of all else”. Sound familiar? You are likely to have heard this advice a countless number of times stated in different ways. On the surface, this may sound like good, solid advice about how to consciously create your reality but, dig a little deeper, and you may find that it is the very reason you fail to do so. This is not because the advice itself is wrong, but rather because the circumstances under which it is prescribed, are unsuitable.
The secret to effective mental focus lies in knowing how to distinguish between when to focus on what you want and when not to; and in the case of the latter, knowing what to focus on instead. There is a very simple method of mental focus that can help by-pass existing negative beliefs and align you with the Laws of Polarity and Attraction in such a way that you create what you want, instead of more of what you do not want. Before examining this method, let us take a look at when you should focus on what you want.

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