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We are the way we are as our spiritual challenge

We are the way we are as our spiritual challenge

Although it may not seem so, life is really quite simple. our purpose on Earth, is create assist this world to move into a 5th dimensional vibration. We do that by transforming the challenges of our experiences into creative responses. Every time we find the value of our experiences, our inner light shines brighter and we improve our conscious awareness, we have seen the light, we have recognized the solution that all problems contain. This is how we get stronger and wiser, when we focus our intention on looking for and finding solutions, finding the value of everything. The challenge of finding value really begins in the mirror, until we recognize the value of being this person we chose to be, we spend an enormous amount of time in judgement and comparison. Once we get the message that we created what we are the way we are as our spiritual challenge of self acceptance and we recognize the value of our existence, our true life begins and finding the value of everything else becomes an interesting game of discovery. This state of mind is our earthly purpose, once we achieve it we start loving ourselves and we start sharing our love with others and begin doing what we came here to do, assist the transformation of each other and our world into an enlightened state of being. In case you would like examples of what we can do, I’m sharing Humanity’s post for inspiration.
How are you actively helping to uplift humanity? Are you living the most authentic life you can and sharing your truth with those you meet? This may be more than enough if it is satisfying to you and feels like it is your life purpose. What happens if you have the feeling that your life’s mission involves having a greater impact on the world as a whole? What has been your plan for achieving that impact? Are you sharing a special gift in a courageous and generous manner?
Some people need to be actively engaged in causes that can change the heart of people or try to change policies that make life a challenge for people. Others feel like focusing on the energetic level is the best way to have a dramatic impact. When you understand the quantum nature of the universe you realize the possibility of your thoughts and actions connecting to all other living beings. When we realize that we are all connected in oneness, we realize it is possible to impact others with just our thoughts. What a powerful presence we can have if we combine both direct action and focused and trusting connection with the Source to bring forth a more loving and compassionate world.

How to channelize energy?

When we are centered, before we chose to think, like the place we create when we meditate, both hemispheres of our brain are working together. The male side, left hemisphere and female side, right hemisphere are joined in mutual function, a one brain, balanced condition. Under stress the male side takes over and our entire energy goes into a survival mode to protect us from pain, fear and the fear of more pain to come. Our energy goes to our arms and legs, so we are prepared to either fight our way out of, or run away from, what appears to be a threatening  situation that we are faced with. When you feel stress it’s advisable to refrain from eating, because the energy needed for digestion, isn’t available and you will experience indigestion. Also when we are experiencing stress, our belief system takes over and goes into survival mentality. Under stress we function with survival tactics that we developed as a child, we don’t think, we react. Understanding how strong our stress reactions are, we can practice breath control, that is an effective way to re-`establish the balance in our brain, our body, our energy and restore the equanimity of our energy. It helps a lot to get a better understanding of our male, female energies and their functions, so I’ve added an extensive explanation of their functions.
BALANCING OUR DIVINE FEMININE AND DIVINE MASCULINE
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One crucial thing to know when talking about about the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine is that these energies are not the exclusive purview of any one gender. Au contraire! Each one of us carries the Divine Masculine and Feminine in us all the time. And we can call on these energies to support us at any given moment.
Another important thing to know before we launch into this discussion has to do with patriarchy, and how it has warped nearly everyone’s ideas of the Divine Masculine and Feminine, precisely because it has co-opted the Masculine and denigrated the Feminine for millenia. It is very clear from the Records that the oppressive system of patriarchy has wounded every human on Earth, not simply women, as is often implied by feminist teachings.
While it is true that the Masculine + Feminine energies are represented in the dualities of up/down, out/in, light/dark (ideas spread by patricarchal forces) the duality of good/bad has nothing to do with this pair!
Courage and strength are energies of the Divine Masculine.
Protection is Divinely Feminine.
Wisdom, intuition, and inner knowing are Divinely Feminine.
All kinds of expression and action are Masculine.
* Allowing and surrender are Feminine.
How did you do? Let’s recap: all the expressive and active energies are the Masculine side of you, and those parts of you that where allowing, surrender, wisdom, and intuition occur are Feminine: this is the counterpart to the Masculine activity. We often define the opposite of activity to be passivity, implying that nothing is going on, but if you’ve ever tried to be still to meditate or to allow your Guides or Intuition to speak to you, you know that this is hard work, at least at first! So let’s think of this in terms of outward vs. inward rather than active vs. passive.
Have your ingrained notions of gender kicked in yet? Remember, patricarchy strips men of their essential Femininity and women of their Masculine side–or tries to reduce us to one or the other, anyway. But it’s never true. Patriarchy is based on fear and control, and the Divine Masculine and Feminine are pure Love. Don’t forget that stepping out of the oppressor/victim paradigm to embrace our full selves is the prerequisite to manifesting!
You might also be surprised to know that courage, aka inner strength, is Feminine! Patriarchal culture teaches us that courage and strength are the purview of men, but the Records tell us that this is definitely our Feminine side expressing itself. Everything that is “in” is Feminine and “out” is Masculine. Inner strength, inner knowing, the protective circle are Feminine. Expression, action, and the ever-expanding spiral are Masculine. (I’ll admit that that one caught me by surprise–I had always considered the spiral Feminine!)
Think of them as the receiver and the transmitter: neither one is better and both are essential.
To get back to this essential question of balance: it behooves us to use a mix of Masculine and Feminine energies in everything we do. Balance your expressive energies with receptive ones (talking vs. listening). Use your head and your heart. Go inside to learn essential reflection.
If you’re a parent, or in any kind of relationship, I encourage you to consider how can you use this balance of inward and outward, creation and reflection, transmission and reception to improve your connection with your child, partner, or colleague. Take a minute right now to think of ways you could employ (DM) this new wisdom (DF) today to make your life easier.
And if you’re in business–traditionally the purview of men (that we often conflate with the Masculine)–I encourage you to reflect on how consciously employing the Divine Feminine energies might help you be more successful. You already know that inner strength is necessary if you’re still in business! But surrendering “control” (read: the illusion of control!) and allowing your intuition to guide you are keys to creating a prosperous business that most people either reject or ignore. This has become a “soapbox” issue for me because I want change-agents to thrive and prosper, so that they can utimately make this world a much better place.

How do we feel about ourselves?

The #1 problem with most of us is our idea of our relationships. I’m not  talking about just relationships with another person, but with everything, our work, our money, our experiences, our wants, our don’t wants, our love life, our bodies, our over all personal encounters with our life. We generally feel that we have little or no control over what happens in our life, we are pretty much a victim to our inner and outer ideas of life and its circumstances. We have forgotten that life is a spiritual challenge to find the value of it and all of it’s adventures. There is a simple, easy and effective solution to all of the above reactions. (in case you accept that you have any of what I’m talking about) the cure or the way to change it all, is your relationship with yourself, when you are O.K. just as you are and understand your true value, you will then recognize the value of everything. Until we learn to love, appreciate and respect our self, we are victims of judgment and beggars for respect. It all depends on the way we feel about ourselves. We are the key to our own happiness. Here is a long Challenging from Saul  to emphasize my point.
 
Message from Saul
by John Smallman
 
Turn towards the Light which will never reject you.
 
All are One. You all know that, you accept it as a basic fact or concept, and then you dismiss it from your minds as you go about your daily affairs. But you need to make it a part of yourselves, an aspect of yourselves that you carry in your conscious awareness at all times, otherwise it remains as meaningless to you as any field of study of which you have only vague knowledge and that holds no interest for you; an idea that is unimportant and is therefore readily dismissed and forgotten.
 
The fact that all are One is an aspect of Reality that you cannot afford to dismiss off-handedly, and as of no interest, while you go about your daily routines. Awareness of it needs to be an important and distinctive characteristic of your personal field of sentient consciousness. If you shut it out of your awareness then you are putting yourselves on auto-pilot, allowing your egos to rule your attitudes and behaviors, as the real You, the eternal part that is One with Source takes a nap. Then later, maybe, it becomes apparent that something strange has happened and you find yourself struggling with issues and conflicts that are quite disturbing, and wondering what could have caused them.
 
Then ego suggests to you that nothing untoward has happened that it cannot cope with on your behalf, so you bury the cares that disturbed you in your unconscious, that vast dump where so much junk, gathered and disposed of over the years, festers and grows rancid. But eventually that junk dump is going to make its presence felt, and you will have to deal with it. In fact for many of you now, all that buried and denied garbage is blasting its way into your awareness causing you considerable discomfort.
 
When you find yourselves experiencing long forgotten painful memories just allow them to flow, like the weather they will pass, do not judge them or yourselves, but if you find yourselves unable to resist doing so, then forgive yourselves afterwards. Remind yourselves yet again that the environment that you appear to inhabit is illusory, as are all the pain, sufferings, conflicts, and betrayals. You are, and always will be, the beloved children of God created perfect – not your bodies which are basically ego-driven vehicles in which you are riding – and therefore remaining eternally perfect. Those memories, however painful, are part of the games of separation that you have been playing, and are unreal. When you awaken they will be gone.
 
However, while you remain within the illusory world of distrust, suffering, and betrayal, forgiveness is your steadfast and constant ally. Practice it, become adept. Your ego’s shrill protests that you either need to feel intense guilt for what you have done, or that you need to be recognized and compensated for wrongs done to you are distractions that attempt to divert you from your path to awakening. Reality is a state in which only Love is present, and by forgiving you divest yourselves of all that is in opposition to It, of all the judgments and anxieties to which you are clinging in fear and anger, thus clearing your hearts so that Love may enter.
 
When ancient issues, long since buried and only faintly remembered, seem to overwhelm you remind yourselves that they are coming up for release, and not as a punishment for bad behavior to fill you with guilt. Feelings of unworthiness, for instance, that you use as a cloak or veil under which to hide because you believe that Love, God, your Father would reject or shame you if you entered into His presence. Ask your friends in the spiritual realms – whoever is your favorite saint, angel, guide, or mentor – to help you to feel the field of Love in which you are eternally held safe and secure. When you ask for this, when you seek to know that you are dearly loved, you release some of the blocks to Love and allow It to flow through you once again bringing you peace and certainty of your divine connection. It is a bit like aerating stagnant water to refresh and revitalize it. However, allowing Love to flow through your hearts, even if only temporarily as you take a break from your feelings of guilt and unworthiness, is far more uplifting and invigorating.
 
The distractions of the illusion consistently draw your attention to all that is unloving – distrust, deceit, corruption, hardship, etc. – and when you focus there fear and helplessness can easily overwhelm you. But you are coming Home, you are going to awaken into Reality; it is inevitable, unavoidable, and for that give thanks, and then focus your attention there, tell yourself: “I am going to awaken!” Deep within yourself you do know this, so to reaffirm it is a most valuable exercise in preparation for this inevitable, imminent, and awesome event.
 
You are dearly loved, you always have been, and you always will be. However, momentarily, the truth of that eludes you, and so we in the spiritual realms are constantly reminding you, bringing that truth back into your awareness through myriad channeled messages, and by giving you a loving squeeze when you make contact with us during your periods of prayer, contemplation, or meditation.
 
You have not been abandoned, left alone, forgotten. That could never happen. But you have allowed yourselves to become very deeply immersed in the unreal and nightmarish world of the illusion, and it is from that you are to awaken. Forgiveness is an essential part of your awakening process because it frees you of the guilt and shame with which you have so heavily burdened yourselves, giving you the courage and the desire to turn towards the Light instead of feeling afraid of it and turning away to avoid rejection.
 
Fear of rejection is a major aspect of the illusion with which many of you are dealing almost constantly, and within the illusion you do experience it. However, like all aspects of the illusion it is unreal! You are all divine beings eternally and infinitely loved and embraced by God, and that can never change. So turn towards the Light which will never reject you, wake up, and rejoice in the wonder of knowing yourselves once more as you truly are.
 
With so very much love, Saul.

Courage

Have the courage today to share your pure thoughts. Do ANYTHING in your power to be open & honest with people. Yehuda Berg
This begins with having the courage to be open and honest with yourself. When you own what you are doing, you can change it, until then you are a victim to your own belief system.

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