Most of us need to constantly remind ourselves to be nicer to ourselves. We are such creatures of habit and we don’t pay enough attention to our automatic inner reactions and outer expressions when we relate to what others say and do. We are so habitually reactive instead of being response-able for our own energy. We forget that when we feel, whatever, and speak, however, we are doing something to us, not to them. So if we choose to lash out, we are really lashing in. Does it really matter what others do or say? Only if we cope an attitude and react. So lets start being nicer to ourselves and be more aware of what we ate doing to us and let them folks do what ever those folks do. There is nothing to defend and nothing to say about what’s going on outside of us except, ‘Isn’t that interesting’. Here is a weekly Hilarion message for inspiration if you are interested.
Hilarion’s Weekly Message
by Marlene Swetlishoff
January 12-19, 2014
The times that are before you are filled with energies of new beginnings and this creates a feeling of anticipation while at the same time needing to bring completion to all outstanding issues, and there is a sense of waiting in a void between two worlds. It is a strange time for those of you who have been earnestly working to align with the higher aspects of your self, for you know the work is in completion yet you find that the way forward is hazy and undefined. This is because you are creating your world as you move through each day and you are not used to consciously creating. This feeling will pass and is temporary in nature, all that is required is a willingness to be fully present in each moment and integrating this new idea of yourself. Conscious creation is the next step in your spiritual evolution and requires more attention from you.
Create a plan for what you wish to create and experience in your personal world. Make a list of what this might look like for you including feeling the emotions of having what you want, seeing yourselves having the experience with a sense of exhilaration and well being. Visualize every detail as much as you can as often as you can. Then when you feel it is complete, release it to the universe and know that it is manifesting for you. This method is best employed at the times of the new moon phases to begin your creation, working on visualizing and owning it until the full moon phase at which time you release it to the universe knowing it will become manifest in divine timing for you. You are becoming conscious creators in your everyday world. Some of you may need to maintain this practice until it becomes easier for you. Remember that nothing that is just started comes instantly but with greater practice and training, you will become proficient.
Those of you who have pulled back in the last year are now ready to move forward once again. You are receiving your second wind, as they say, and will find yourselves beginning your work on self mastery with renewal and great enthusiasm. This time, the way forward will be much easier than ever before. You will be filled with a sense of higher purpose and many of you will come to a conscious realization of your part in the divine plan. You will also begin to see how perfect each experience you have endured on your journey to this point has helped to bring you to a feeling of confidence and personal sense of your own power. Every experience had its own gift to give you and now you can utilize what you have gained and learned with more understanding and proficiency for the benefit of yourselves and others around you. You have been enriched with a greater sense of your own magnificence and capabilities.
It is important to treat yourselves with greater kindness within your thought processes and remember that all that you have experienced in your life is what your soul desired to partake of in order to bring you to a greater sense of mastery. This is now where you stand on your journey. Celebrate this accomplishment by rewarding yourselves with some action or item of significance to you. Let it be something that brings you great joy and helps you to remember how far you have come on your path of initiation into higher consciousness and understanding. And we ask that you celebrate the moments as they unfold for you, for it helps to keep your frequency level in tune with the ever increasing energies that flow through the atmosphere to flood the planet without ceasing.
Connect each day to the Earth and stay grounded. Eat foods that impart the higher frequencies into every cell in your ever transforming bodies. Affirm each day that you are an eternal powerful being who can stop the process of aging and renew yourselves on every level. Thoughts and intention are the things that bring the reality into your experience. Write your intentions down and repeat them every day, ideally at the beginning of your day but what is most important is your consistent persistence. You are creating your new reality by this practice and every day is a new fresh start. Fill it with the most positive and benevolent intentions for yourselves, your loved ones, your community and your entire planet. Love is the answer in all situations and this is becoming more noticeable in your personal world.
Until next week…
I AM Hilarion